Currently I am having my third baby, first one had special medical needs, second baby was fine.
I'm also 41.
According to the calendar I am 11 weeks today, although I'm sure I am a week or two behind.
I can't recall how it was with the first two, but so far apart from having my details taken by the healthcare assistant, I haven't seen or spoken to anyone.
I have no notes and no scan booked.
I have phoned the Drs surgery twice now, and have been assured that "the midwife will get in touch, they are probably behind" but in fairness I have never waited this long for some contact!
So who do I ring? Do I ring the Maternity unit where I am going to give birth, or do I just wait?
I am a bit anxious, as whether or not I had a healthy baby after, my first baby was very unwell, and still has problems six years on.
I don't want to be a fusspot, as I am aware it's my third baby, and I know the system changes every five minutes, it I don't want to keep waiting only to find I was actually overlooked?
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izziewizzie · 05/12/2014 20:15
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