Hi ladies,
I am 24 and I am 7+4 weeks pregnant with my first. I have suffered from depression and anxiety on an off since I have been 18 and just before I got pregnant i asked to come off my anti depressants and was being weened off them.
Anyway, when i found out I was pregnant i was advised to stop taking them completely and im actually feeling good! So no issues there but I am being very sick and i fee l very very weepy.
I had a day off work on Monday and today when I have gone to work i spent the first two hours of my day in the loo. I spoke to my manager about being sick and got a bit emotional, she then said that she thought I ought to go back on my anti depressants as its clear im very emotional. I explained that my weepyness is to do with my hormones and im just a bit fed up of being sick and she said she's worried about some up coming training where im going to need to pass assessments and that I need to be reliable.
I went home and rang my doctor as advised by my manager who told me she was going to sign me off for a week and that she doesn't want me back on anti depressants due to the risk to the baby, let me make it clear that I DO NOT WANT to to go back on them but I feel like I went to see my manager to tell her I was too sick to be in work and she told me I had depression?
I have since called her to tell her that the doctor has given me a sick note and she said that work don't accept them, and that i should try and come in if I feel up to it.
I don't have a high pressures job and I could easily be replaced but i can honestly say that I need this time off I can't get keep anything down that's not to say that I don't like having time off work either. Does anyone else think that she's been a bit out of order?
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Emilyjane11 · 20/11/2014 13:05
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