Hi ladies, to cut story really short I had a little fling with an old friend and unexpectedly fell pregnant. There are no feelings between us which makes that side of things easy. He started seeing someone after I told him about the pregnancy they have been on off more times than can remember. our son is 6 months old now, despite him being involved he always seems to put his relationship first. He see's baby once a week (what he asked for) smokes weed and sells it. He's lied about having a job and numerous other things. Now he wants his girlfriend involved, I'm so depressed because I do not want someone els playing mummy with my boy. I Get that this happens and it can't be helped but it's not like he's 3/4 hes flippin 6 months and no way am I ready for her to be lookin after him I don't even know her, they both sit and smoke weed which my baby won't be anywhere near thats for sure. I could go into so much more detail but am I wrong for not wanting her with my baby yet? If I am then please someone help me to deal with this I'm so fed up can't think straight :(
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