I'm 33 weeks pregnant and suffer with very severe anxiety/OCD.
Initially I was under midwifery-led care but my community midwife thought it would be wise to refer me to a consultant to discuss how bad I'd been feeling recently. I had my first appointment with a consultant 3 weeks ago and I was referred to CBT. The consultant scheduled an appointment for a review/check-up to see how I was coping which I attended last Thursday (3 weeks later).
I had been to my first CBT session the day before which made me feel more positive about things so I was looking forward to seeing the consultant to explain that things were improving, as well as getting me and the baby checked over as my next midwife appointment was 2 weeks away.
I arrived at the hospital and had my blood pressure taken as well as other checks whilst I waited to see the doctor. Shortly after I was called and seen by a different consultant to last time and she had a student doctor with her too. We discussed my anxiety and how I was feeling and I told her that things seemed to be getting better and everything was perfectly with the baby.
She then wanted to check me over as I expected her to but asked if the student doctor could do it - I refused because I thought it would trigger my anxiety and I'd only just started to feel better. Instead she did it but talked through what she was doing so that he could observe/listen which was fine by me.
The doctor had a good feel around my tummy and checked the position of the baby before measuring my bump and listening to the baby's heartbeat with the doppler. At first she said the heart was a bit fast but it was because the baby was wriggling away from her so much (she doesn't like being disturbed!). She measured my bump again and then checked the heart which was then as it should be thankfully.
She basically did what my MW usually does at my usual antenatal appointments but she was a bit more thorough and heavy-handed than what I'm used to. It didn't bother me at the time because it just felt a little uncomfortable more than anything - it never feels nice when my MW does it but I'm much more relaxed with her.
However, it's been 4 days now and I'm still feeling "bruised" where she pressed on my pubic bone when measuring my bump. Again, this is usually painful when my MW does it but she seemed to press on harder than usual.
I came out of the appointment feeling absolutely fine but now I'm so anxious and worrying that she's caused damage to me and the baby. I feel like I'm back to square one with my anxiety and I'm in such a mess. I regret going to the appointment and wish I'd just stayed at home.
I can't cope with the way I'm feeling and I feel like I've just ruined the progress I was making by going to the hospital again. I've convinced myself that she's hurt my baby and that I'm the worst mum in the world for letting her check me over.
I'm sorry for the long post but I'm really desperate for help and I'm not seeing my therapist for another couple of days.
Thank you for reading x
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Louise990 · 04/08/2014 11:20
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