Some of you know my history re: battling eating disorder & 17 years of IVF to get to this stage...
Had 20 week scan today
- Midwife said, "I'll have to push hard as your tummy is well padded". Yes I know & you could have said it in a much meaner way so thankyou for your subtlety....
BUT THEN....
- I call my Dad (who has clearly forgotten our plans for the scan) & he asks, "Has anyone asked why you're extra-fat at the mo?"
The other grandparents-to-be are so disinterested that at 12 weeks they didn't even ask when the next scan was & it turns out they've ordered a new dining room table with only 2 chairs so clearly their future plans don't involve us. Plus they've turned their one & only spare room into a second lounge so it's not as if they're allocating room for a travel cot.
Just down today.
Sorry for the whinge.