Hi all, this is my first ever post although I'm a long term lurker! I'm currently 25 weeks pregnant and all is well so far but I've been really upset by something a family member said last night and just need some advice on letting it go!
I've always been a little bit overweight and struggled to maintain a size 12. I have overindulged a bit this pregnancy (my first) and already put on 24lbs! Last night my family met up for dinner, there was about 9 of us and as I got up from the table to go to the loo my aunt loudly said 'oh my God, even your bum has gotten big, its huge!' She kept going on about it and finally I tried to laugh it off and walked away from the table to the bathroom, whereby she pointed at me and kept saying to everyone 'look at it! Look at it its so big!' My heart just plummeted. Once out of the room I could hear my DB and SIL telling her to stop it but I feel so humiliated. I've tried to brush it off but I feel so ashamed of myself and my body Just looking for any tips on stopping myself dwelling on this and how you deal with comments like that? (If anyone else even gets comments like that!)
Oh and maybe some tips on defeating carb cravings in pregnancy??
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Negative comments about weight gain
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picknmiss · 24/05/2014 09:20
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