Just as the title says, I have a 2 year old a 11 week old baby been feeling off for about a week thought I was just tired as 2 year old is not sleeping at night, past few mornings major adversion to coffee (had with both my pregnancies) took a test and definitely 2 lines!
Only had sex 3 times since birth of no 2 and used condoms each times, how the heck am I going to tell my hubby he's booked for the snip? I'm not sure what his reaction will be...! I hoping its positive one but not convinced
I felt just like this when I got a bfp when dc3 was 16 weeks! I'm now 12 weeks and I'm fine about it (still have the odd moment of panic!) it will be tough at first but at least you get the baby part all done in one go and the close age gap means they will play well and you can amuse them with similar things.
It will be fine just give yourself time to get used to the idea
It was his birthday weekend he reached the big 40, that's the only reason, as I'd had a few post natal complications and didnt really feel up to doing the deed!
I'm in shock I think
I could call him at work but I'm not sure how he will react to the news, if its a bad reaction at least he won't be at home for us to argue about it! On the other hand he could be over the moon we did briefly talk about having another...but decided for him to have the snip as we can't really afford another
My heads a bit all over the place today :-(
A 3 year old a 1 year old and a new born sounds rather scary at the moment!