sister and BIL just assuming I can run them around wherever and did not even ask....just feeling a bit pissed off and ranty i would say no but my sister doenst live here so i very rarely get to see her . just done a.long week at work and now spending my weekend carting people about.
I feel your pain missslackpants. they have also volunteered to buy DH pints as payment/thanks without realising the irony that it is my car and my petrol(and me doing the f-ing driving)....and all I can drink is water.
rude b'stards. If you're fed up with it just say no. I would offer as I'm not tired of it yet, but as soon as people just assume and start saying "flymo will do it" I'll say, ahem, no I won't, jog on pal.
Completely understand this. We arranged for the kids to stay at gps one night so I could pick dh up from his works leaving do. We'd had a disagreement day before and weren't on the best of terms anyway. He knows I'm beyond tired by 11 and I was expecting him to understand this. 1 am I finally got a text saying he was ready to be picked up. 45 min drive there to be greeted by 3 pissed up people expecting a lift home. I'd never met these additional people before which annoys me at the best of times. I finally got in bed at half 3 for my 4 hrs sleep before having to pick kids up. I'm still waiting for a thank you. Inconsiderate *****!!!!
slightlyinsane - the EXACT same thing happened with me and DP with his work thing. He was all pissed and couldn't understand why I was so angry. He managed to hold up his indignance for another two days and then I went preggo HULK on him and he relented that he had, in fact, been a shit.
I've been running people around for the last 13 years, so annoying. Dh doesn't drive, but he better by the time this baby is born grrrr and basically most of my friends are crap not confident drivers, or don't have access to a car.
I do prefer to drive though, one of my biggest bug bears is when people live their rubbish in my car!!
If you drive, then you make the rules on when you leave. I made the mistake of not doing this last night, and was still watching people drinking whisky at 11.30. By the time I got to bed it was 12.15, and I feel crap today as a result. Next time I'm going home at 10, if you want a lift, that's your Cinderella hour.
Have survived the weekend but made it clear that just because I'm going to things does not make me the taxi also when I said at 2200 like was tired and going home they looked like I had slapped them....but couldn't say no stay until three am when we won't be coherent or interesting. just said either stick to my timescales or get an actual taxi.
I've got a few friends like this. It gets very annoying. I'm the only driver in a few of my close friends and so at the best of times nights out invariably involve me being designated driver, or having to perform 'taxi' services, and being pregnant makes some people think 'oh well, you can't drink anyway, so can you drive'?
MissSlackPants84 I would put your foot down on being a taxi for your 30th birthday. I think that's a bit extra cheeky of your friends to be honest. They should be spoiling you on your birthday, not using you as a free taxi service. xxx