Help! I found out on Saturday, two positive home pregnancy tests plus being 10 days late plus lots of signs and symptoms. Told the dad on Sunday who didn't react too badly. But my problem is that he's married to someone else and has a child with her, and not sure what he wants to do. I don't want to be a single mum, so if that's what will happen then I will probably terminate rather than raise my baby without a dad. I know plenty of people do it, but not me. But how do I say this without it seeming like an ultimatum? If he did not already have a son he says he would have left by now and it's me he wants... now made even more complicated. I'm at the doctors tonight for my first appointment etc. I think I'm about 3 weeks pregnant. I don't need anyone telling me their thoughts on being in a relationship with a married man - trust me - I just need advice on how I tell him in a nice non-threatening non-scary way that if he won't leave then I won't have it, because it's him I want, not a baby and definitely not a baby without him :-( :-(
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