dh and I are on our own, no one within a 2 and a half hour radius. everyone family and friend wise is so excited which is lovely, but both my parents and dh are desperate to get here asap once baby is born. totally understand they want to meet their new grandchild and want the whole new born cuddles & memories, but I have no idea what state ill be in and tbh I dred the idea of entertaining the in laws whilst I'm trying to figure out breastfeeding.
my parents I must admit do understand we'll want some space but they've already said they will come up as soon as the baby is born just to see were all ok, and won't stay. The in laws on the other hand I think will expect to stay a few days. I've made dh aware I will probably want time to recoup and get into a routine; also, who knows if the labour and birth go to plan?! It's not too harsh to tell them to wait until I'm ready is it? FIL partner is very house proud and judgemental, but I'm already in the mind set of if you don't like it sod off
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K8eee · 13/03/2014 14:59
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