I'm 33 wks with 2nd DC. DS is nearly 3. Dp football fan and wants to go to important football game, at wembley, when I will be 38 wks. Wembley is at least 3 hours away from home. I had PE with first and was induced but not until 39 wks. All ok so far this time but got consultant appt at 36 wks. Dp wants to get a ticket so he has the option but says he obviously won't go if any signs of labour, I'm too knackered etc. I don't know if I'm being unreasonable to not want him to do this. I feel that if he gets a ticket the presumption is that he'll go unless anything happens which makes me really anxious. To add to complications the ILs are also away that day so although my parents are close, they will have to have DS and support me between them if I went in to labour until DP could get back. I don't have the easiest relationship with my mum and she's not in the best of health in terms of looking after DS without my dad so not a brilliant option although would probably be fine for a few hours. I know it's very unlikely I'll go into labour and I understand it's an important game, it just makes me feel really anxious thinking about it. If I tell him I really don't want him to go then he won't but don't feel that i want to do this as don't thInk that's healthy in a relationship and kind of want him to decide not to go for himself. Just interested in other people's opinions.
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