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I'm not pregnant but need help...

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bethy50 Mon 10-Mar-14 18:17:54

Hi ladies,
I've got a young son. I'm no longer with his dad. I want more kids, but don't really have luck with guys. I've asked my sons dad if we could have more kids even though we are not together. Thing is, I want my kids close together because I am disabled. I'm actually going blind. I wanted my kids youngish so I choukd add them grow up as much as possible and maybe see my grandkids. Nothing can cure what I've got and I'm 100% going blind. I've looked into using donor sperm but its way expensive. I've looked into fostering and adoption but I don't think its for me. What would you ladies do? Thanks smile

TeaAndANatter Mon 10-Mar-14 20:40:50

I'd start with therapy. Not because I think you sound batso, more because I think therapy is a useful place to have some space to start thinking about this kind of tricky situation. I personally think therapy rules, and I think the NHS should start handing it out at the school gates like it's going out of fashion, but that's my bias!

Good luck with your future decisions x

Jolay100 Tue 11-Mar-14 07:50:39

Wow I feel for you and can completely understand where you're coming from. It's such a difficult situation/ decision. I like tea's suggestion. Whatever you decide good luck!

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