Leading up to their 20 week scan vs worrying before the 12 week one? I was nervous up until 12 week scan, but had loads of symptoms, was being sick, boobs sore and so on, I also had a scan at 15 weeks whilst still having symptoms but now everything has gone. I've got 16 days until the anomaly scan and I'm more nervous than I was before the 12 week one!
This time, definitely as a couple of good friends had recently had bad news at the 20 week scan, plus I'm older than when I had DC1 so was concerned about problems being found. With DC1 I'd had a MMC before so the 12 week scan was worse for me.
Luckily all was well this time sure it will be for you too!
Im glad, (I think!), that I'm not alone and were all feeling the same. Just a shame I guess at the same time. I'm sure all will be fine, just each day feels like a week and it seems to be taking forever. I'm sure we'll worry right up til the births then start worrying about something else LOL start of the rest of my life I guess!