23 weeks pregnant with my first child.
Realise i'm planning ahead a little TOO much, and acknowledge that with fertility you cannot always plan ahead ANYWAY (and especially as i am 37!), but i'm already planning the second (I'm a project manager, i cant help it).
My 1st will be due in June, and i'd really like the second to be a summer baby also- but dont want to wait and have a gap of 2 yrs...
So my ideal situation is- give birth this June, conceive around Oct/Nov (4 mths later) and have the 2nd one born the following July/August.
From what i can tell, the main risks to having children less than 18 mths apart are:
- Placental abruption with the 2nd
- Premature babies with the 2nd
- I'm assuming your MC risk would also rise with the 2nd? if your body hasnt fully recovered?
If i end up having to have an EMCSection with the first, will that further dampen my plan, or does it make a diff?
Again, I realise things dont always go to plan, I'm just looking for feedback from people who have kids that are less than 14/15 mths apart. (Moreso for the health of the second baby/mother rather than what happens once the baby is born, i realise that would be tough work, that's fine!)