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I want a bump :( Anyone else a little overweight?

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bluebelle2662 · 12/02/2014 11:30

Hi everyone,

I am 20 weeks pregnant on Friday (eek) and I am wondering if anyone a little overweight could share their experiences of when they got a bump? I feel like my weight has shifted forward a little, so I do look a little different, but any ideas when I will get a more defined bump? I feel a bit of a fraud at the moment!

I'm a size 16 but only 5 feet tall!

Thanks

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bubblegumgirl · 12/02/2014 11:42

I was a bit chubby when I got PG and so I spent until about 24 weeks looking fat as opposed to PG, but believe me, I have really popped since then, so don't fret (and don't compare your bump with anyone else's!). You will look pregnany eventually!!!

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Mummytobe2014 · 12/02/2014 12:07

Yep same here! I wore a long scarf until at least 30 weeks Shock as i just looked fat and chubby, i was embarrassed as everyone knew i was preggo but just didnt look it so i covered my belly for ages then all of a sudden my bump just popped out and i looked pregnant, it shocked alot of people lol, now i proudly show my HUGE bump off everyday Smile

Everyone shows differently though and at different times so i wouldnt worry just yet Smile

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HethsC · 16/02/2014 16:22

I'm a typical apple shape and it wasn't until 20 weeks that I really started to look pregnant rather than just fat.

You will get your bump but everyone is different and will show at different times. :)

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RaRa1988 · 16/02/2014 19:41

I'm nowhere near overweight and I look fat at 23+3. Hoping to pop out soon, but it's obviously not just a weight thing as ladies much bigger than me look much more obviously pregnant at my stage :-/

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weebigmamma · 16/02/2014 21:10

I am almost 32 weeks and people are still saying 'where's your bump?' but at this stage I think they're taking the p* because I am massive. Yes, I was overweight to begin with, but seriously, I am feckin huge now. I think people are scared to say that I'm obviously pregnant looking because I was fat before so they don't want to acknowledge my big-ness if that makes sense. It's just weird though!

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RedCountryRoads · 16/02/2014 21:19

I'm 23 weeks tomorrow. I'm 5'8 and was a size 14 before the bfp. I've got a bit of a bump but just look a bit chunkier. I feel frumpy and not "glowing" or "blooming"

To look at me you can't tell I'm pregnant.
I feel your pain bluebelle2662, it sucks!

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SweetPea86 · 16/02/2014 21:27

Hi Hun I'm 5ft 2 and was 14 before preg now in size 16 maternity clothes.

I have to admit I from about 28 weeks started to look pregnant.

My father in law today who hasn't seem me for a while said look at the size of you! Made me feel pretty shit coz I feel huge even tho my bump isn't massive.

I've got quite a high bump so my flabby tummy at the bottom just hangs I'm 32 weeks now.

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Jolleigh · 16/02/2014 21:28

I'm 34+4 now and it took until I was past 6 months pregnant before I showed at all. Now, I'm enormous. You'll get there Smile

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Sussex31 · 16/02/2014 22:41

My bump popped out in the last few days at 22 weeks, amazing how many comments from different people within a 2 day period.

I am normally size 12.

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