I have two DSs, 4 and nearly 3 - close age gap, found things pretty tough at times (two house moves, suffer pretty badly with anxiety at the best of times). DS2 will get his 15 hours from Sep, and DS1 will start in reception. Everyone keeps telling me "you'll get your life back! Hooray! Some time for yourself!" Which made me feel like crying - I will miss them so much and am really dreading it! I have always wanted, in theory, a third baby but the thought of the madness / pregnancy / blah has meant I can't imagine saying 'Right - let's do it." DH is in two minds - I think left to his own devices he would stick at 2, but he knows I have always wanted a third and has admitted I'll probably chew his ear off if we don't.....
To cut to the chase - I am not on the pill. We use the timing method, knowing full well it could fail, but over the years I have consistently ovulated on CD 17. Well, this month I ovulated on CD 13 and guess what - today 3 very faint BFPs. DH is pleased, I am in shock... I can't imagine how my parents will react (they always go on about how tired I look, how good it will be once I get some time to myself - I work evenings and weekends and look after my DSs in the daytime, so I AM tired a lot of the time). I think that is my biggest fear! That, and going through it all again / how will the DSs react / fears about the pg and birth etc etc....
Would someone like to offer me reassurance that a third will just slot in neatly, that the DSs will adapt perfectly and that everything will be absolutely fine???? Please??!?!
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Please convince me 3 is a good number of children to have!
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katster37 · 03/02/2014 14:42
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