I've just read an article in the current issue of Real magazine about the decline in fertility after the age of 35. It's a really scary story with lots of sad stories of women who tried and failed to get pregnant in their mid to late thirties.
I am 35, will be 36 in Oct and already have a 4yo by my ex husband. I'm now with a younger man (25yo) who is keen to have one child with me and the aforementioned piece has just panicked me. We've been together for nearly 2 years and I've always known he wants a child/ren, but I'm not quite sure about it since my ds will be at school in Sept and I'm sort of looking forward to having some time to myself (or will I be bored s*less?). However, I now feel the clock is ticking loud and clear! Is it or are there loads of mums out there who conceived easily after 35?
Should I get my coil taken out NOW! and is it now or never or do you think I've got some time? I think I probably do want another one and then that will be it and I do think that my partner would be justified in leaving me if I didn't want any more since he does want a child of his own and it doesn't seem fair to him if I don't. Any similar experiences/thoughts? Thanks.
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declining fertility after the age of 35 is it really that bad?
jsmummy · 02/02/2002 12:09
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