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Getting pregnant after a miscarriage

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mummyblues Mon 29-Jul-13 15:44:06

I just wondered if anyone has had an experience of becoming pregnant soon after a miscarriage or did you wait until after you first period?
Is it safe to start straight away?

NotSoSuper Mon 29-Jul-13 16:43:34

I was told I could start trying again after my first period. Think that is just so they could work out dates though. I got pregnant again after my second period

andadietcoke Mon 29-Jul-13 19:28:09

I was told to wait two cycles, actually waited one. That first period after the mc, for me, was worse than the mc itself in terms of how heavy it was - I was glad I'd got all that out my system before TTC again.

I think the 'wait x cycle(s)' advice is more to do with dating and your mental well being than anything physiological.

mikkii Mon 29-Jul-13 19:31:48

I was advised to wait until after my period, but the consultant said that dating the new pregnancy was the only reason for advising this.

Good luck

princesscupcakemummyb Mon 29-Jul-13 19:32:56

hi mummyblues i had a mmc sep 2012 i got told i could start trying right away if i was ready how ever it took my cycles about 5 months to settle i conceived again in feb 2013 now in a healthy pregnancy so short answer is when ever your ready good luck to you take care

LittlePeaPod Mon 29-Jul-13 19:35:07

Hi Op,

I mc this Februray and we started ttc straight away. The doctor and MW oth said it was fine to star straight away. We fell pregnant in April (after 1 cycle post mc) and I am 17+4. Good luck Op. flowers

lola1980 Mon 29-Jul-13 19:36:46

Yes they advise you to wait just so they can more accurately date the pregnancy.
How are you feeling about becoming pregnant again? I had two miscarriages before this pregnancy, I'm due next Thursday and still can't relax until she's born! I found it hard to believe it was successful, even after 3 early scans before 12wks. I suppose what I'm saying is that if you also feel anxious next time, there is every possibility that things will go well smile

ZingWidge Mon 29-Jul-13 20:20:19


I actually waited until after EDD. and then some. I
we'd already had 4 DCs and it took me 10 months after MC to get brave and try again. I think I'm not the majority though.

as others said it's a good idea to wait for a period - if for nothing else you probably won't want to use your MC or the previous last period dates as reference.

so sorry for your loss.sad thanks

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