Hi everyone,
I have just found out I am pg (4.5 weeks since start of last af) and am wondering when to tell my boss.
I have told my best friend and will tell my parents this weekend if nothing goes wrong before then as I think it would be good to have support if the worst happens.
I am currently considering telling my boss after my first midwife app next wednesday but worry I will be getting ahead of myself.
I get along v well with my boss and I think she is waiting for me to get upduffed as it is well known that I want kids. My boss even said to me as soon as I had booked my wedding that she had mentally planned that I would be leaving xmas 2013 to start a family.
I have no doubt that she would be v happy for me and would be a good support if anything went wrong whilst at work.
I only work in an office so no heavy lifting etc, but I do tend to be the go to person when it gets busy and I am the one who takes on the extra work and does long hours to help and that can be rather stressful (i dont always do well with stress)
I also want to give my boss plenty of time to train someone up for maternity leave as I have spent the past year or so learning my bosses jobs for holiday cover so it will take some time to get someone else ready to take over.
What do people think? Some people seem to say wait as long as you can, but others say that the sooner you say, the better, as long as you can deal with telling them if things go wrong.
I would only tell my first line boss and ask her to keep it confidential until I wanted to tell other people (this would be after 12 week scan)
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Telling my boss
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Frizz1986 · 07/05/2013 20:43
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