I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and i made a stupid mistake drunk and had a 1 night stand early hours on the 27 th march this year i found out this month april 11th i was 3+ weeks pregnant so am not sure hu the dad is if i was pregnant to the one night stand shouldn't the test say 2 weeks as 27 th to the 11 april is not more than 3 weeks plus i did take the morning after pill the day after i had a one night stand on the 28 th of march , but i still not 100 percent its just crazy how all year av been with my fella and march i get pregnant and had a one night stand , i calculated my last period which was the 4 th march so i used a due date calculator and it showed days where i was fertile and he day i may of conceived and it showed dates before the 27 th (one night stand) It said i conceived around the 18 th so i may already of been pregnant before the 27 th i am so scares and worried but when i took the clear blue the test said i was to far gone for it to have been the 27 th march ?????
sweetheart - the first scan can certainly date but it can be out by about a week or so. You can ask for an early dating scan in the UK I believe - but normally you don't get one until 12 week (another poster can correct me). The tests work out your HCG levels (pg hormone) and take this based on an average to see how pregnant you are, hence the three weeks. If you have regular periods, on a 28 day cycle, then in theory you ovulate around 14 days after the first day of your period - this is the start of the new cycle. So yes you can certainly have been pregnant earlier, and the morning after pill is essentially a massive dose of the normal pill, and does not always work. It only works most effectively 24 hours after - so again this could mean that you were already pregnant.
It sound like you have a lot to work through - please get yourself to the doctors, try and see a female doctor if you can - perhaps at a family planning centre? or one you feel comfortable talking to about all of this. They should be able to refer you for an early scan if you have good reason. And you may need some help then deciding what to - don't be afraid to reach out. xx
I cant tell my fella and the one night stand lad has a family and a gf we dont want anyfin from this he wants to live hos life and mine too but this has happend i just hope its my bfs am so scared there is no wat i an tell my bf he will leave me and there will be so much trouble caused i wish i new because if it was the other lads i would have a termination ,how do i ring for a early scan or talk to some one ? I need help i think about this ever hour of the day i hate myself
You can't not tell him, that would be massively selfish and controlling. He should not be led to believe this child is his when you know it's 50/50. You don't have the right to deceive another human being to that extent.
In your situation I would terminate but only you can make that decision. If you keep it then he has to know its not definitely his.
My bf is 28 and made up i am pregnant . If it was his i would continue , if i was on my own or if it was the other lads i would get rid i just dont no what to do i cant stop crying ino its my fault but it was a stupid mistake
Thanks thats helped alot , the likey hood like u said i may be my bfs but ill never be 100 %. And the next step is to tell my best friend because i cant be on my own through this mess , and the fact i took the morning after pill 28 th made me think its more of a percentage for it to be my bfs , i went to cornwall on the 29 th thats when to and the easter weekend i had period pains but never came on so i thought would that be to soon to have pains only 3 or 4 days after the 1 night stand ?