I hate it when people want to touch my belly. I think it's private. If someone isn't pregnant you wouldn't even think of touching their belly, would you? Then why do people think it's ok when a lady is pregnant?
But these people seem to find it's ok. But how to tell them it's not without offending them? Is there even a way to do it without upsetting these people?
I'm not going to my salsa dance classes anymore. I used to like it. But not anymore.
People come so close. Closer then necessarily during the dance. What happened to:
(a line from dirty dancing) This is my space and that's yours!
I know I shouldn't but especially when a man comes to close or touches my belly I wander if it isn't erotic for him.
I do have a trust issue with men.
I found out that a lot of men do find it erotic to see a pregnant lady even watching someone giving a baby the breast.
I find it so sick that men, other then my partner, would find me erotic just because I'm pregnant. How sick are they?
There's a baby in there. A little child, it's beautiful, but erotic.. Please, just leave me alone.
Where is this belly touching thing coming from?
Everyone knows to be careful with pregnant ladies. Then how can they just intrude our personal space like that and think it's ok to do that?
It's my 4th pregnancy and with the others I also hated it when people tried to touch my newborn baby.
Even people who I never met before in my life. People in shops on the street. They're like: hhooooo soo sweet...
And then, thank goodness not always, comes the hand to touch the baby.
What to say to these people? How to react on it? How on a good way to let them know that I don't like this?
I've always struggled with that. Any tips?
Thanks,
Sylvia
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what do you do when: People want to touch your belly/newborn?
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syl1985 · 26/04/2013 17:58
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