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mummyneedinganswers · 22/04/2013 23:17

Hiya i really need advice im so scared.

Well anyway my partner and i have been trying for a baby now for a year and i ended up in hospital last night and i was told i am pregnant roughly around 3-5 weeks. Im having a very heavy bleed with clots and the doctor said i could be havin a miscarriage but it could be aa normal period wile pregnant. Im due to go for a scan on wednesday to see wats going one but i really want to know if anyone else is havin the same problem and if my pregnancy could still be successful, ive tried so hard for this to happen im scared its all slipping away from me and i have no control over it . Is there anything i cam do my minds runnin wikd thinkin the worste and ive had a miscarriage before that i dnt want it to happen again!!

Please i woukd like genuine people to answer me and help me,

Thanks

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BabyHMummy · 22/04/2013 23:30

Am so sorry i can't offer advice but dint want to read and run. Hope all is ok when you for your scan. Xxx

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RJM17 · 22/04/2013 23:30

So sorry u are going through this. I have had 2 mc's in the past so know how you feel.
I did bleed for about 5 weeks during this pregnancy on and off but that has now stopped and I am 10 weeks pregnant and baby had a good strong heartbeat.
I know its easier said than done but try not to worry too much as that isn't good for you! I really hope your scan is a good one.
Sending big hugs x

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mummyneedinganswers · 22/04/2013 23:50

BabyHmummu thanks its nice to kmpw that people are there :) xx

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mummyneedinganswers · 22/04/2013 23:55

RJM im sorry to hear about ur 2 mcs its such an awful thing to go through and its gpod to knlw thats theres others out there who has bled and is still having a successful pregnancy. Its such a hard thing to xome to terms with:0 im just hopin for a positive emresult on wednesday xx

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ChocolateCremeEggBag · 23/04/2013 00:16

Hi - lots of people have bleeds for various reasons early on ( and even throughout pregnancy). But if it is an mc, then you will at least know you can get pg. Sadly, lots of us have MC's too, but they are often just one of those things where something just wasn't right.

Fx for good news on Wed, but if it's not, then the miscarriage forum has lots of lovely people on it who will be able to help (it's in with Style & Beauty)

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mummyneedinganswers · 23/04/2013 00:24

ChocolateCremeEggBag your so true it does happen to many of us and thanks for te advice il let yous know how i get on on wednesday, fingers crossed its good news xx