I've just had a growth scan and consultant app today as I had pre-eclampsia in my last pregnancy and they have been keeping a close eye on me this time round. I have had regular growth scans which have shown baby to be measuring a week behind but today the head was measuring 4wks behind while stomach and femur were 2wks behind. Last time estimated birth weight was just scraping the 5th centile and now it is below as weight has only increased by 0.6lbs in a fortnight. This is really concerning me although my fluid level is good as is blood flow to baby.
Midwife also found sugar in my urine for the 1st time and said if it happens again they will have to do tests but she didnt say what the tests were for or if this is much of an issue?
Lastly, and thank you for reading this far, I had been geared up to ask my consultant for an elcs but she was on holiday so didnt get the chance. My reasons for this are that my last birth was extremely traumatic, I was rushed to hospital at 37wks with severe pre-eclampsia and told if I had arrived much later ds and I could of died, which obviously terrified me! Then I was just left for 3 days attached to machines and getting progressively worse until one evening they decided to rush me to delivery to be induced. Nobody ever really explained what was going on and I was still so ill when ds was born that i didnt bond with him and developed PND.
I really can't face the stress of that again or cope with leaving ds for a 2wk stint in hospital which is how long i was in last time. I am still suffering from depression and anxiety which was made worse by the loss of a close relative recently. Another reason I wanted an elcs was to ensure ds2 isn't born on their birthday and associated with our grief if that makes sense?
However Im wondering if maybe its a sign that i couldn't see my consultant and Im meant to have a vaginal birth. I had really hoped for a home birth or at least a relaxed birth at a mlu but have been strongly advised against staying at home and told i can't go to the mlu. I really don't want to be induced and bed ridden again so really need some advice. The anxiety of it is driving me crazy!
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cookierock · 11/04/2013 22:27
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