The area that we recently moved to has 4 options of where to deliver - 3 midwife led units and one consultant led.
The consultant led place has an awful reputation for cleanliness and care, and this was confirmed when we had one trip there at 20 weeks.
If I can't have my waterbirth at a midwife led unit, if I need to be induced or they have any concerns I'll have no choice but to deliver at the main hospital. This would be bad enough, but I've just spoken to two women who had their partners sent away while they were in active labour as they needed to stick to visiting hours with the ward being full. One lady said her waters had gone, she was 3cm dilated but her fella was still sent packing til morning. He only just got there in time!
With it being my first, I'd be absolutely gutted/terrified at being left alone. Plus the hospital is 45-50 mins away so I'd also worry that if my labour progressed quickly he wouldn't make it back in time.
Its my due date today and don't feel close at all, so now i'm even more anxious about having to deliver at this hospital.
Have you heard about this happening, or has it happened to you??
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