Hello,
Yes, I'm scared!
Just wrote an account of ds's birth but had to delete it because it upset me to see it written down with all the details. Suffice to say the birth took days and ended in emergency, things got a bit scary, we were ok thankfully but both ill afterwards with an extra week in hospital. Full recovery within a couple of months.
Everyone warned me about PTSD afterwards but I decided I was alright and just wanted to focus on the wonder of my beautiful little boy.
So now, happily pregnant with DC2, I find myself wanting to go for a Caesarian. But there's another voice inside me urging me to 'try again' for a natural birth. God knows why!
Also, if I need six weeks to recover from a cs, potentially, it will be hard with (and for) my two year old DS. And people do say second births are often much easier. Right?!
I'd love to hear fom other women who have made this choice one way or the other. I'm really struggling with it.
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16 weeks pg with DC2. First birth experience traumatic. Unsure about choosing 'natural' birth or c-section.
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LemonPeculiarJones · 19/03/2013 10:39
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