A little bit background first - I am 29 (30 this year....eeek!) and my boyfriend is the same age. We have been together for 7 years, have our own house, both have very good jobs. For the past year we have been having the "baby" conversation quite regularly.
We are both on the same page that we definitely want kids and definitely more than one. About 12 months ago I was VERY broody, he was a bit more on the fence in that he knew he was going to have a big year at work so felt that maybe the baby should be a 2013 project. I changed jobs half way through the year and having a new work challenge pushed the baby out of my mind. Over Christmas he started talking about having the baby again and I do really want it but somehow making that decision to start trying feels enormous and in fact quite petrifying!!
So my question is, how do you know it is the "right" time to have a baby? How did you make that decision? Is it normal to feel a bit anxious/petrified/worry about the future?
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How do you know it is the "right" time to have a baby?
malterserslover · 28/01/2013 10:16
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