Hi, I'm currently 24 weeks and due to various issues have been advised that I'm at high risk of going into premature labour. I've been put on bed rest and going for steroid injections tomorrow, but just wondering if there's any advice anyone can give me?
I've bought a few bits for the baby - I have a Moses basket and a starter set with bottles and a steriliser. Not even started with the nursery or anything yet. I'm going to get a hospital bag together but wondering what other essentials I should get just in case?
Bless you sounds like you've had a tough time. Yes one day at a time is the only way to go.
I'm a BF supporter at our local unit. I know it is very tough but if you want to express it's important to get going as soon as possible after birth, so don't let them leave it too long to show you. If you want to get started there is a great demo of hand expressing on the Small Winners DVD, and also good info in the Bliss booklet Breastfeeding your Premature Baby.
Don't want to put you under pressure, I just spend a lot of time helping NICU mums. I know support can be hard to come by at the weekend and wanted to make sure you get the right info.
Have you checked whether your hospital does week long parking tickets? Ours does, they're not well advertised! But £15 for a while week saves a fortune, and of course if you are in/out over the course of a week, it's still valid.
sokmonsta the hospital do a deal where if you buy 5 days worth of tickets they validate them and its then £3 a week after that, so just saving up those tickets.
celtic I finally chased someone down yesterday afternoon and got started on it. Not managed to get a lot but I was unbelievably proud of the little I managed - and the nurse said she couldn't help but smile as I marched into the ward clutching my syringe. Makes me feel so much better knowing I can stockpile those little drops for as soon as he's ready for them, instead of just watching by the sidelines while other people take care of him.
My 32 weeker is now an active 18 month old who loves doing his 3 year old brother's puzzles. But the first few weeks were emotionally tough so do take care of yourself and take all the help that is on offer. I was about to take my prem baby books to the charity shop, but would be happy to send them your way if that would help. Let me know if you'd like them.
It's a great feeling isn't it? Knowing only you can do something so vital for your little boy. I remember my first 0.5ml syringe, I was so pleased! Are you still on the ward or have you been discharged?
I remember that with my 32 weeker, it was the tiniest amount but I was so pleased with myself! Do the hospital have electric pumps? I found I was soon able to produce enough for feeds when I started using a pump.
I met a women last week while having ds4 who's baby was born at 25 weeks, they put you up in the hospital hotel where I am if you want. She's just hitting what should have been her due date and the baby is coming home this week!
It is a great feeling and the hospital have been fantastic helping me out with it. I'm still on the ward for the time being and using the hospital pumps, and they will loan me a pump for when I go home so I can carry on there. He had his first taste of it last night - just a drop on a cotton bud which I rubbed on the inside of his lips and he loved it and was trying to get some more! He's going to be having this small amount every 2 hours while they see if his stomach can cope with it.
moomin that's great news - she must be so made up. How's your little one?
He's doing so well. He was off his ventilator by Monday and onto Cpap but he's determined to be off that soon as well! He keeps grabbing at the mask and trying to pull it off, so yesterday they took him off it for an hour and let me take him out of the incubator and cuddle him. It was amazing! I went in to see him in the early hours and he was off it again then as he'd been making so much fuss, so they let him have 2 hours of freedom and his breathing was fantastic with no alarms or blips.
He's having more milk now as well - 2ml every 2 hours direct into his stomach and is coping with it really well so all good signs.
So pleased to hear he's doing well. My ds was on cpap for five days and they were great in weaning him off it. Remember the amount of time he was off it creeping up and it was brilliant. Are you able to do all of his cares, it was great for us to be able to do that. Hope you are keeping well too op, look after yourself and hope little Sebastian keeps battling his cpap!