Hi,
I'm hugely grateful to be pregnant, but eight weeks in and I'm feeling rough and pretty low. Work is relentless and it's all I can do to just sit there and concentrate on not being sick. I'm struggling to focus, and know I must look pretty gaumless in meetings. I've already had one day off because of a migraine and panic because I started spotting, and I was late in another day because I fainted on the train. I just want to wake up at 14 weeks :)
However, the real issue I'm grappling with is when to tell my boss. I've only been there a year, and she's not going to be delighted. I'm going to a 2-day conference with her and two peers in a week (which was my oh-so bright idea before pregnancy). It's a full-on conference, about 4hrs away, and she's emailed round to say we can all go out for a curry with someone in her network on one of the nights. I'd normally just go but the thought of the conference is bad enough at the moment without trying to survive a night out afterwards. I either need to go, be knackered and make an excuse about not drinking (pretty tricky) or tell her I'm pregnant the day before at nine weeks and say I'll stay in thanks. I know this may sound trivial, but I'm not sleeping so I've had way too much time to obsess over it, and really hoping for some advice. I really need this job in a year's time to pay the mortgage, and really scared of jeopardising it.
Sorry for the long, 'woe is me' rant.
Thanks all xxx
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Eight weeks pregnant - feel terrible - should I tell my work?
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Queazy · 12/01/2013 14:51
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