I'm at home waiting for a home visit from a community midwife (stretch & sweep), and I had a previous visit 2 days ago. Both times the midwife who booked it asked for and noted a rough time period that I said would be convenient, took my phone numbers and said I could phone the midwifery unit at the hospital if I wanted to find out when the midwife would be coming.
On Friday I didn't bother phoning as I was shattered anyway and happy to stay at home, and I suspected the hospital had more important things to do. The MW who booked the visit said the visiting MW would come in the morning if possible, and in the end she came around 2.30pm (she said she had left a message for me, but apparently she had both of my phone numbers wrong!). That same MW booked for me to be visited again today and said she would ask the MW who was coming to come early if possible as I had plans including going to a friend's house for lunch. She also confirmed my correct telephone numbers and again said I could ring the unit to find out roughly what time the MW would come, if it was later.
So around 11 this morning I did ring and politely ask, and was told there was no way of finding out, the MWs are busy, it could be any time between now and 4.30pm and I just have to wait.
I know this sounds like an AIBU rant and I probably am being unreasonable, but I'm just wondering if this is normal in other areas. I'm surprised that it's impossible to find out when the midwife is planning to come and I have to stay at home doing nothing all day. Is that normal practice everywhere in the UK?
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RudolphTheRedNosedGiraffe · 16/12/2012 13:47
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