To try and cut a (very) long story short, since my job was moved last December I have a 160 mile round trip commute to & from work. It's about 2.5hrs each way on bus & train so I'm out of the house for 12/13hrs a day. (5.30am alarm call - yuk!!)
The commute is a bad work/life balance at the best of times but I'm now 32 weeks pregnant and I'm getting to the point where I don't feel this is perhaps best for me.
The biggest issue is work: they haven't been very forthcoming with support towards me or offered me any help to make things easier (like being able to work from one of our local offices which would reduce my commute to 18 miles each way! Or reduced hrs). When I have midwife appointments I am still expected to make the journey to work (for the sake of 4hrs) when I could get more hrs done seeing out the rest of the day at the local office. I have specifically asked to be allowed to work locally in January (I am due at the end of Jan), but have still yet to hear from my boss 3wks later. Sadly finances don't allow me to just go off on maternity leave at Xmas!
I know I'm pregnant & not an invalid, but am I being a doormat by not speaking up for my welfare? Or do I just have to suck it up?? I've no idea if from a H&S point of view whether work ought to be doing more to consider my wellbeing either.
Any advice would be appreciated, especially if anyone's been in a similar situation!
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Am I being a doormat about my long commute?
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u32ng · 04/12/2012 13:55
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