I'm 40+2, feeling fine and haven't lost my mucous plug so probably not likely to go into labour anytime soon.
I'm going to see Twilight tomorrow morning but will be going on my own as I don't know of anyone else who wants to go see it. The cinema is a 20 minute drive from home and 5 minute drive (if that) from the hospital so if anything should happen, it's not far or I could get a taxi.
Now my mother is adamant that I shouldn't be driving/going on my own and is insisting that she take me, go shopping and pick me up. I'm a very independent person and like my own company so am struggling with her putting me under this pressure.
To understand my dilemma I must say that my mum is VERY controlling and thinks the way other people do things is totally wrong if it's not how she would do it. She still harps on about my 11 year old niece's birth and how stressed SHE was and how SHE found out about it because it's not how SHE wanted to find out (even though she wasn't in the hospital at the time and my sister had her reasons for telling her when she did).
I have told my mother that I won't be telling her when I go into the first stages of labour as I can't be stressed about her being stressed and I do think that this is why she's telling me I can't be on my own - because she can't stand the thought of not knowing every detail, so being with me is her way of controlling me/the situation.
Do you think I'm being silly by going to the cinema on my own? Or should I give in to her? I really don't want to give in as that will send her the message that if she pushes me hard enough she can control me!
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Controlling mother or is she speaking sense? WWYD?
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MB34 · 15/11/2012 19:17
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