So, the title of the thread says it all really guys.. I'm just under 5 ft 8 and I weigh about 16 stone 2lbs. Tomorrow I have my appointment to calculate my BMI and give my bloods and pee sample. I am really scared about my appointment because I am embarrassed of my weight. My boyfriend doesn't know how much I weigh and his parents are "fattist". If they found out I had to have consultant led care or anything because of it I would never hear the end of it. To top it off his mum is a nurse and so is even worse!
What I wanna know is does anyone else have a high BMI and if so, what sort of differences are they? If you have to go to a bigger hospital to give birth, do you still have your appointments with the midwife you saw for your booking appointments etc or do you have to go to the bigger hospital? Are the local appointments only for midwife led care?
It annoys me because I am physically fit, walk my dog twice every day and am a size 16 in clothes (so not that huge!!) but I just feel like all the healthcare people will judge me and be rude. I am also scared about the scan not being clear - will it be clear enough (im size 16). Sorry for the long rant guys, I'm just on the brink of tears here worrying about everything :(
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BMI of 35... Scared to go to my appointment!
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hopeful92 · 27/10/2012 17:17
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