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Someone else sharing your pregnancy

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Jess8080 Wed 24-Oct-12 07:00:23

Hi ladies I'm pretty flustered about this girl that I stopped talking to for close to a year now. I have just entered my second trimester and have not formally announce our news because of a miscarriage that happened at 12 weeks a few years ago. The only ones that know hush hush are my immediate family and my inlaws. A few weeks ago she sent me a text to congratulate me on my pregnancy. I was baffled so I asked her how she knew I was pregnant and she replied 'sorry I can't say'. I found out from a friend that she had asked her if I was pregnant a month an a bit ago and a couple of weeks ago visited her to say that her source confirmed that I was pregnant. She is so nosy and has to be the first person to always knows the news. It was so peaceful when i stopped talking to her. Why won't she leave me alone? Over reacting? What to do...

pipoca Wed 24-Oct-12 07:05:28

She sounds like an attention seeking nob cheese. No advice past just to ignore her really. Anything else is just fuelling the fire I think.

squeezeemout Wed 24-Oct-12 07:32:35

He hee nob cheese, I love that phrase!

Jess8080 Wed 24-Oct-12 22:03:10

I couldn't stop laughing at nob cheese. I wasn't expecting that comment but thanks it put a smile on my face grin

seabuckthorn Thu 25-Oct-12 08:27:53

What pip said!

10storeylovesong Thu 25-Oct-12 09:35:26

her source?! who the fuck does she think she is?! Personally I'd be speaking to the few people who know as someone's obviously gone against your wishes and blabbed. Then I'd delete her number and any other contact with her (Facebook etc) and get on with enjoying your pregnancy.

Jess8080 Thu 25-Oct-12 19:01:01

She eventually texted back although she didn't say who had said it she did say that she just randomly heard it. I don't think any family member would have spoken to her but my guess is she might have overheard. Pretty sad to think of it and may explain why she wouldn't want to share the source. I've never had a fall out with a friend before but I definite closed the book on our friendship. A gossip girl that is really desperate for a hug. Do you have one? wink

Jess8080 Thu 25-Oct-12 19:07:19

And yeah when I heard Source from my friend I just thought Geez Louise she must be the local news reporter.

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