A pregnant friend of mine (A) is having some trouble with a really overbearing friend (B), who keeps calling and insisting she wants to be at the birth, when friend A only wants her DP there. Friend B has also been saying newborn will be "her baby" and she'll be like a second mummy to the LO (implying she's like supernanny and A will obviously need her help.) It has been a few years since her own DC were babies and yet she bombards friend A with advice, some slightly outdated/irrelevant. Friend A has tried to tell her nicely that she wants to be left to get on with things and B will find out about the birth when everyone else does. But friend B is not taking the hint. Friend A has had an anxious pregnancy and struggles with confrontation at the best of times.
Was going to post in AIBU but then thought I would get slammed for interfering at all, when that isn't the case. I just want to know if I can give Friend A any advice on how to deal with B's behaviour.
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ErrorError · 08/10/2012 20:23
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