Hi,
I was told last year that I had pcos and having children would be difficult. To cut a long story short, I am now 23 weeks pregnant! I was never someone desparate for children but when I was told that they may not factor in my future it made me sad so it was a nice surprise to be pregnant (I'm 36 years old).
I have days where I am excited but other days I just feel terrified! I have a nice life - job I enjoy, lovely husband, lots of sleep, good social life and I fear that all this will disappear when I have a baby and whether I will cope. I appreciate it's life changing and the lack of sleep etc.. but would love to hear positive comments about being a parent (particularly one intheir thirties). I feel that when I speak to people with children they take great pleasure in saying, 'just you wait...' and 'you won't be able to do that when your a mum...(e.g. go on holiday, have fun etc...'! They the tell me about their post-natal depression etc... Surely, there must be good things too otherwise why do people have more children?
I don't want to sound ungrateful at being pregnant, I am v lucky but as the times progresses I just worry about it all the time!
Thank you in anticipation....
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sunshineseven · 20/06/2012 18:00
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