Just a quick, I have 3 children, an 11 year old dd, a 7 year old ds and an 19 month old tomorrow dd.
Having just split up in May from last childs father, I met a guy around 3 weeks ago. I slept with him on the 3rd date about 5 days into seeing him. We used a condom but it split so I decided, to avoid accidents, as I am quite fertile I would go to get the morning after pill, it was august bank holiday monday I went to the local walk in clinic, he made me do a pregnancy test before he would give me the pill which came back negative, I took the pill and thought nothing of it, got on with my everyday life.
My cycle is every 24 days so it was due on sunday.....nothing came but I expected the pill would make my period late so I wasnt too concerned.
Yesterday I had had enough though and after dropping my kids off at school i had an hour to kill before work so I went and got a test thinking get a test and at least then pregnancy is ruled out and it will put my mind at rest and I can just wait for my period.
I did the test.....positive straight away. I did another to make sure then, a clear blue digital with conception indicator.......still pregnant and puts me at 4-5 weeks pregnant.
Absolutely stunned is not the word. Have told new partner, we have half talked it through, not had proper chance to talk, that will be tonight, but he has no children, and has said its my decision but he wouldnt mind me keeping it?
All I'm thinking is it if fair on my children I have now, if I end up being single again, which is always a possibility, they will suffer, in that it will be even more of a struggle than it is now......but ideally in an ideal world if I could afford and knew how the future was going to pan out, I would keep it.
Any advice appreciated.....
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happyatlast · 16/09/2011 14:54
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