Del1 - sorry to hear you are having stress with this too. I found it all very upsetting - am much more relaxed now I know baby is head down. It does sound like your baby has space to move around still which is good news.
Valiant1 - making a list of questions is a really good idea, as you can get answers to your specific worries. I did this and it really helped. Like you one of my worries was about the muscle relaxant - I was concerned about the effect on the baby and also I didn't know how many of my muscles it would relax and what other effects that would have. When I asked the consultant he explained that the drug they use for this purpose is an asthma drug, so one which many babies are exposed to in the womb when their mothers have to use an asthma inhaler, and consequently known as one of the safest drugs to use in pregnancy. I did not feel any effect from that drug at all, and it was administered with just a small needle under the surface of the skin (rather than right into a vein) which made it less horrid than it could have been.
I went into hospital at 9am, and left at around 11.45am. Of that time, the first hour were spent chatting to the midwife and making sure my notes were all up to date / changing into a theatre gown. Then she put me onto a monitor to see what the babies normal heart rate pattern was for 20 minutes, then she did the injection. During that time the consultant came in and out and answered my last minute questions ? no-one seemed in a rush and it was all very relaxed.
The actual procedure took about 20 minutes. The consultant and a colleague tried to encourage the baby to turn in a backwards roll first, then when that didn?t work they checked the babies heart rate again and then tried a forwards roll which was successful. Although they were quite firm in their movements I would describe it as uncomfortable rather than painful and honestly felt like it did not harm the baby at all, as all of the pressure from their hands was on me, not the baby. My husband who was watching described it as ?they were using the pressure from their hands to change the shape of the uterus, rather than pressing on the baby?. I had my eyes closed at the time, concentrating on relaxing my abdomen to make it as easy as possible for them :0).
Afterwards the midwife monitored the babies heart rate again for another 30 minutes or so then they gave me tea and toast and sent me home. I asked what the likelihood was of the baby turning back, and the consultant said he would be very surprised if it did. When I saw my own midwife 4 days later she confirmed that the baby is now 3/5 engaged ? a huge relief!