Hi Trina. Did you have CS last time because you didn't go into labour / progress? I only ask because I didn't go into labour with DD1, had a failed induction and emcs. I wanted a VBAC with DD2, and had sweeps from 37 weeks, about 6 in total, as there is research that suggests early / repeated sweeps can be helpful for women who have previously had problems going into labour. The idea is that it works gradually, rather than being an instant fix. They won't do this in my local PCT, so I sneaked into the next county to have it done! I wondered if this might explain the early sweep?
I'm sorry it was so uncomfortable for you. I had one sweep with DD1 at 41wks, done by a horrid mw with very short fingers, on my very soft sofa. I was left shaking afterwards, (and she wrote a semi-pornographic and rather unprofessional description of the inside of my fanjo in my notes, which made the mw on my second pg laugh her head off!). In contrast, the mw I was under with DD2 was much more forceful (pressing down on my bump, really getting her hand in there ) but it was mildly uncomfortable rather than painful. I did go into labour at 42 weeks, but had major decelerations in DD2's heartrate, so went for another emcs -- her cord turned out to be round her neck. I didn't get a show until I started early labour 2 days before the birth, about 4 or 5 weeks after the first sweep (it was still coming out the next day - LOADS of it ).
I was told to do anything to increase the baby's head pressing on my cervix - the mw even suggested star jumps! Would second the birth ball / walking advice (star jumps were not good with my pg G cups).
Do you think the back pain and cramps might be some very early signs that things are moving? Did they give you a score on the Bishop scale when they examined you before the sweep?
My first CS was really traumatic, but the second one was completely and utterly different, the recovery was much faster, and I would go so far as to say was the most positive hospital experience I have ever had, even though I had desperately wanted a VBAC and have a phobia regarding hospital procedures. Knowing what was what with it really did make a difference for me, it was much less frightening.
I can fully understand you wanting to avoid major surgery if you can reasonably do so (even if the first CS went well), so I hope things move along for you soon - you still have lots of time (and sorry for the long waffly post).