Hi folks - could you help me make a decision. A friend of mine had a baby 3 weeks ago - we used to be close (she flat shared with my DH when we first started going out 10 years ago) but we gradually lost touch and didn't see each other much over the last few years. Since we have both got pregnant I've seen slightly more of her in social situations - birthdays, christenings etc and we went to see her beautiful baby last week and she seemed to be doing really well.
Anyway my query is that I have Wednesday off as annual leave and I was thinking about texting to see if she wants to meet up - I could go round to hers of course but I don't know if this is really rude as I realise that she is a new mum and probably completely exhausted and I don't want to be inviting myself round and imposing myself - but then on the other hand she may like a bit of contact with the outside world & company.
I'm 30 weeks so hopefully I'll be meeting more up with her over my maternity leave anyway in a few months time. Just wondered from other peoples experiences of the brand new baby phase whether you would appreciate a visit or not. Hope that makes sense!
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benne81 · 18/07/2011 14:55
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