Hi there,
I'm currently 24 weeks pregnant with my first baby (a boy), living just outside High Wycombe on an RAF base with my husband. We've been here for the past year since we married and now are due to move (not far, just to RAF Benson south of Oxford) as soon as they can supply us with a decent house. I'm worrying about this move because the housing there is appalling and because I don't want to leave my friends here, but it has also brought home to me how unstable life in the military is and I'm worrying about whether it's unfair to bring up a child in this environment.
They'll miss out on all sorts, not just continuity of education, but also on time spent with other family (who are based near Folkestone), the opportunity to develop and keep friends... even just the ability to develop favourite places will be denied him. He won't grow up in one place and be able to call that place his hometown. He won't have people outside his family and our group of friends who will have known him all his life. He won't be able to go to local places and just know he belongs.
These are all things that have been important to me growing up. I'm still friends with a few people I went to playschool with for example.
What do you think? Is moving around and not knowing how long you'll live somewhere necessarily a bad thing? Can a child who has been brought up like that ever be particularly attached to a place and feel at home? I'd love to know if you've any experiences yourselves, either good or bad.
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Military nomadic life-worries about what babe will miss out on
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whizzyrocket · 18/07/2011 12:12
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