My DH and I used to spend our weekends usually with a good many alcoholic drinks in us but how times have changed!
It was a struggle at first but now he drinks and I don?t. Most of the time it truly doesn?t bother me but he does ?pop? for a pint after work once a week ? which can stem from 1 pint up to about 5 (1 when he knows I?ll be home from work on time, 5 if I?ve gone shopping or to see my parents). He spends his weekends with me ? either out with friends or we watch films/tv together (he drinks out and at home) so I don?t really mind him going as it?s not like he?s clubbing at the weekends and he?s usually home by 8pm.
He does have the odd night out with the lads too (as I do with the girls) but I just don?t know how I?ll feel about the pub night when baby arrives. I joke (ish!) about all the night out passes I?m clocking up whilst being pregnant ? and if I do ever get annoyed with him drinking I can whole heartedly admit it?s because I?m jealous! (admit to me ? not him!)
So ? how did your DP/DH act when baby arrived? Did his life stay the same?
We?re going to struggle more financially when baby arrives as I only get SMP so the last thing I?ll want him doing is spending our money in the pub ? but at the same time I don?t want to become a nag!
Thoughts?
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Did your DP/DH change when baby arrived?
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Newmummytobe79 · 24/06/2011 14:33
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