Hello,
we found out the sex of our baby yesterday, we are having a beautiful healthy (by what we have seen) baby girl - again.
This is our 3rd baby girl, actually our 4th as we had to end a pregnancy last year due to Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome, and our angel baby was also a little girl.
Part of me yesterday was ever so slightly upset it wasn't a boy as this will be our last baby and I would have liked to have a son, but on the other side of it, our baby is strong and healthy and there are no concerns for her survival.
DP was quite upset at finding out we were expecting another girl, and was in such a bad mood for the rest of the day. I got very emotional about how he responded and reacted to the news. I know he wanted a boy, so did I, but it's not the end of the world. I understand that he wants another male in the family and a son to carry on the family name. But after the heartache last year, I would have thought he would just be happy as I am that all is ok.
Today he is much more relaxed about it and he apologised for his reaction yesterday. We had a chat about why he was so upset, and I understand his reasons, but I am now in a place where I am convincing myself that he isn't interested in this baby. I tried to suggest we sit down and think of names whilst girls are in bed, but he has engrossed himself in a computer game.
It took him a while to bond with DD2 after her birth because he had convinced himself that she was a boy, so this time around we agreed to find out to stamp out any disappointment on delivery day. But this has now left me quite upset and I just want him to jump up and down and be happy with me. Am I expecting too much?
He adores our daughters and was devesated when we had to let our last baby girl go. He is a lovely and amazing man and I love him to bits, Im just so upset by his reaction
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Upset by DP response to finding out the sex
NatzCNL · 03/06/2011 19:32
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