I posted a while back in the Giving Birth section about my health problems, but I would really value some ideas on how to take care of myself in case I get pregnant. I find it utterly terrifying as I do not have a baby-making body, in fact I have spent the last 20 years having treatment and avoiding getting pregnant at all costs!
Quite aside from the fact that it will take a miracle for me to conceive, my main concerns are my body's ability to physically cope with carrying a baby. there are 2 main reasons:
- I have endometriosis and some internal organs are scarred and attached to the abdominal wall, so they do not move around easily and I get a fair amount of pain. This lead, 6 years ago to problem 2:
- Two prolapsed discs in my lower spine where the spine supports the uterus. If I so much as strain when I am constipated I get pain and the discs threaten to pop out again
Also, problem 3: My old physiotherapist once remarked that I have 'funny hips' They do not bend like they should, and rotate outwards, placing strain on my lower back, instead of folding inwards to my chest.
So you see, I am very very anxious that being pregnant would be a difficult thing.
My back is much better than it ever used to be - years of osteo and physio - and the endo is finally in remission (hence the TTC). So there are plus points.
Can anyone offer advice on what I could do to help my body - exercises to strengthen, loosen etc? Anyone had similar problems and coped with pregnancy? Could my GP advise? I am worried that I can't even take my painkillers when pregnant (diclofenac).
I am utterly terrified of being pregnant, and cannot even begin to imagine how I could push a baby out
Any wise words, oh experienced MNers?