Have found out today I am a couple of weeks pregnant and it has come as a huge shock. I'm 24 with a fifteen month old ds, engaged to a wonderful man, we both work, he owns our home (although it needs work e.t.c. and we are not yet married so have things we need to save for which a new baby would put on hold) and I also understand that having another child would be A LOT more work. I know that I would struggle to go through with an abortion and I believe we were both at least considering another child at some point, just not yet. What I'm really asking is, how much did a second child change your life and in what ways? I think I'm still too much in shock to make a decision yet so this is more of a fact-finding mission than anything else!
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