Hi everyone,
I have just joined here in the hope of getting a bit of advice and support.
My partner and I started trying for a baby in October, and conceived just a few weeks after started trying! I'm now 10 weeks. We have been together for a long time, are happy and both want a family, but whilst I am really happy, my main emotions at the moment are anxiety and fear. I feel awful for feeling this way, and keep hearing of people that felt "in love" with their baby the moment they found out they were pregnant. I don't feel that way and feel bad that I don't. If anything, I just feel numb and stressed whenever I think about it. Did other people feel this way? If so, did you become more excited/at ease with the situation as time passed?
I think what might be stressing me is that for some odd reason I had it in my head that it would take us around nine months to conceive (doh!), and we would therefore have had time to get the practical stuff sorted - we still have quite a lot of credit card debts to pay off and aren't able to move house right now. I keep focusing on this and thinking that things aren't "perfect".
This must sounds ridiculous!
Thanks for reading.
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munkeychops · 07/12/2010 16:00
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