Hi all,
Having a bit of a blub, and feel silly, so would like some advice from people in the same boat!
I'm due in 2 weeks, and am having my DH and mum as birthing partners. I don't feel that i want anyone else appearing until i know baby is ok, and i am in pj's not covered in my insides. It seems to me that i'm justified in not wanting visitors until i'm on the ward.
DH however, thinks this is strange, and thinks that having people waiting outside (potentially for a very long time, it's my first birth) is the way it should be, and that birth is a family event.
He's said he will support my decision, but can't see in any way where i'm coming from, and that if he 'is ill' he doesn't mind people being around. He isn't close to my MIL, so i'm finding it really difficult to understand why he needs to make the point that he thinks my decision is strange.
we've just had a fairly big row about it, and i'm feeling really worried that if MIL does turn up, he won't stay strong about my decision.
Sorry for longlonglong post, but i'm a hormonal, fat, stretchmarky mess and i'm venting.
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is it just hormones, or do i have a point here?
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Lauz87 · 09/11/2010 20:50
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