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Sex of the baby in Amnio report?!

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DuelingFanjo · 25/08/2010 10:29

Hi there

I had an amnio 8 weeks ago and asked not to be told the sex of the baby.
Yesterday I had my 25 week appointment with the Midwife and she stuck a whole load of things into my maternity folder and at one point asked me 'are you the lady who wanted the sex in a sealed envelope' to which I answered 'no way - I would be so curious and I really don't want to know'.

Anyhow - I just took a look in the folder to see what bloodtest bits she'd stuck in and there's an envelope in there with the full Amnio report (which I have never seen - I have just been told that all is ok) and there's a wopping big sticker on it saying 'please be aware that the sex of the baby is included in this report'!!!!!

I really really don't want to know but I would like to read the amnio report.

Are they supposed to have stuck this in?! I'm really confused.

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emmyloulou · 25/08/2010 10:34

They are supposed to put copies of the results of all tests in your carried notes.

DuelingFanjo · 25/08/2010 10:37

hrrmmph - so now I have to resist opening and does this mean I can't see the full report without seeing the sex!?

I wish they had told me this, it's a shame they can't produce a report without the sex on it and stick that in instead!

I will have to keep this hidden from my DH as he really wants to know. I thought that once we got past the 20 weeks scan there would be no way of knowing until the birth.

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Shaz10 · 25/08/2010 10:40

Could you give it to someone to keep safe till after the birth?

sarah293 · 25/08/2010 10:41

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DuelingFanjo · 25/08/2010 10:42

Yeah - I will give it to my mum I think, but I still really want to read teh full report as both times they told me the results (preliminary and full) they just spoke to my husband and said they came back normal.

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DuelingFanjo · 25/08/2010 10:43

I really don't want to find out the sex so yes it matters to me. I want to find out on the day when the baby is handed to me :)

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DuelingFanjo · 25/08/2010 10:44

st didn't realise that every woman would have the sex of their baby in an envelope in their maternity notes

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Xavielli · 25/08/2010 10:48

Not every woman has an amnio so not everyone does have the sex of the baby in their notes.

emmyloulou · 25/08/2010 10:50

I think with amnio it's part of the test they assess gender isn't it.

They have to put the results in to cover themselves, if you are taken sick elsewhere and what not, it helps the people looking after you to see what tests you had, what the results were etc so they know what has been ruled out.

Personally I'd leave them in as they have been put there for a reason.

DuelingFanjo · 25/08/2010 10:50

ah yeah - that's a very good point

still.. hrmmph!

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GwendolineMaryLacey · 25/08/2010 10:52

Next time you're at the dr or mw can't you ask them to put a sticker over the gender?

sanielle · 25/08/2010 10:53

Only if you have an amnio DF not every hopsital will even tell you if you request to know. ((I'm jealous I had to pay like 90 quid i think)) If you def don't want to know though don't get your mother to read the notes to you get a med professional to do it, mum is bound to refer to the baby as he or she. .
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Come on you know you wanna know!

DuelingFanjo · 25/08/2010 10:56

I thinkI will do that Gwendoline, I'll ask them to read it to me :)

seriously don't want to know though . Well... a little bit of me wants to prove my DH wrong as he is convinced it's a boy and won't shut up about it but it may well be a boy anyway. he he.

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Kittykatzen · 25/08/2010 11:04

The way medical professionals report amnio results is by firstly stating the genetic makeup of the baby - eg 46 XX (for a girl) or 46 XY (for a boy). 46 refers to the total normal number of chromosomes. If normal it then states that the baby isn't affected by Down's/Edward's/Patau's syndrome or any other tested conditions. If they didn't put the XX/XY bit in the test result would be incomplete, as it is part of the test. If they told you it was normal there won't be any hidden information in the report that you haven't been told - I read amnio and genetic reports frequently in my work and they're always a lot shorter than you'd imagine!

IsItMeOr · 25/08/2010 11:08

Oh, I know where you're coming from in terms of not wanting to know the sex, I was the same.

I'm glad the amnio results were good though, that's great news.

Shaz10 · 25/08/2010 11:10

You're stronger than me - I would have read it by now! :o

DuelingFanjo · 25/08/2010 11:12

That's interesting Kitty - now I know what to look for

but I am not going to look, really!

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GwendolineMaryLacey · 25/08/2010 11:15

I'd have read it in the corridor on the way home! But I'm another one who paid through the nose to find out. Couldn't imagine not wanting to know. :)

DuelingFanjo · 25/08/2010 11:16

I didn't even know it was in there until today! I will have to keep this quiet as I can't imagine my DH not looking

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SweetGrapes · 25/08/2010 11:23

Don't see why they have to put it in.
It wasn't put in my notes after the CVS. The report just says that the full complement of chromosomes is present.... doesn't actually mention the karyotype.

If it was I couldn't stand the temptation.

EMS23 · 25/08/2010 16:23

My amnio result is very much NOT worth reading. It tells me nothing more than I already know so I wouldn't be too worried about missing out on some vital pieces of information by not reading it until after the birth.
Alternatively, do what someone else said and ask someone to put a sticker over the sex or to photocopy you a new page, with the sex blacked out or covered over and replace the page in your notes.

ILoveDonaldDraper · 25/08/2010 17:14

If you know your amnio was clear you don't need to read the report - mine was all totally scientific gobbledeegook about karotypes etc. It won't make sense to you unless you are a medic or a scientist and it won't tell you any information that you don't already know - just don't look at it!!!

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NovemberAli · 25/08/2010 18:34

This happened to my SIL except they left the gender results paper clipped to the front of her notes so she couldn't avoid seeing 'male chromosome present' when she looked at them!

RememberToPlaywiththeKids · 25/08/2010 20:26

Is there anything that the amnio could pick up that's incompatible with life that couldn't be spotted at the 20 week scan and knock on tests that occur if they spot something does anyone know?

ILoveDonaldDraper · 25/08/2010 20:56

yes they amnio can tell you things you don't get confirmed from a 20 week scan. They do a full chromosomal analysis which is definitive on whether there are any genetic disorders which have a chromosomal abnormality. They can see "soft markers" of some of these disorders at scans but the only way to be sure is to have an amnio. If you are at 20 weeks you are too late to have one.

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