DD asked to start potty training on saturday morning so I thought we'd give it a good go. The CM's DD has just potty trained and her best friend has as well so she's seen lots of potty training going on and 'big girl pants'. I was a bit dubious though because DD is only just approaching 2.3yo and the CM's DD is 2.8 and her best friend is 2.6. However, she has been showing lots of signs of being ready to potty train (including telling me that she needed a wee on friday evening, dragging a potty into the room I was in and tried to sit down before she started to wee/telling me not to take her nappy off to change it as she was doing a wee/telling me when she needed a poo etc)
So, day one I was a little under prepared but thought we'd try it. She managed just 3 accidents and 4 wees on the potty but mainly managed the wees on the potty because she was so excited to be potty training that her bottom was virtually glued to the potty She stayed dry during nap time even though she was in a pull-up and was a bit distressed by her tummy hurting with such a full bladder but was quickly relieved by sitting on the potty.
Day two was rather more trying with DD wanting to wear her knickers but not wanting to admit that she needed the potty during the morning. We had four accidents and five wees on the potty. She was dry during nap time again. She started being a lot more obvious in her impending need to pee by jigging around, holding her lower tummy and generally being irritable just before weeing so I started to pick up on her cues and managed to get her to the potty before she started weeing on most occassions. She knew straight away when she was starting to wee if she had an accident and clearly wanted to get to the potty but she wasn't wanting to stop playing to get to the potty 'just in case' she needed a wee.
Today is day three and she has managed four wees in the potty with two of them starting just before she got there.
The problem is, she will not believe me when I tell her that she needs a wee. Either that or she is refusing to go to the potty when she starts dancing around holding her bits because she doesn't want to stop playing/is frightened/some other reason. Is this normal? She was actually screaming at me yesterday just before she went for a wee saying that her tummy hurt and pleading with me to 'wipe me bits' and she would not believe that she just needed to sit on the potty and wee. As soon as she managed to wee, she was clearly a lot happier.
At what point will she start to listen to her body and realise that she needs a wee and tell me/go to the potty without me prompting her?
Also, she doesn't instantly wee when she sits down on the potty when I know that she needs a wee. It can take up to five minutes for her to start 'producing'. Is this normal?
Sorry that this is long. I wanted to make sure that there was enough info for someone to interpret what is going on!
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Day 3 of potty training - are we doing well or have we started too early?
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Swaliswan · 24/08/2009 13:58
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