Hi,
Don’t normally post much but would have liked to have read something reassuring after our first attempt so here goes....
Little one is just shy of 3. A month ago I read the ‘Oh Crap’ book and gave it a go. Disaster from start to finish. I felt like a failure from the offset as according to the author if left it too late. Child didn’t want to be bare bum. At all. Did want stickers. Would spend the day sitting on the potty to try and get a sticker, get up frustrated and then wee 10 seconds later and look surprised. He was frustrated and sad, and didn’t understand why we were stuck indoors, I was fed up, must be because I’d left it too late, not giving full attention (baby) etc etc and I was continually mopping up wee. Abandoned it and felt like a failure. He spent the next few weeks refusing point blank to try it again.
Today, 5 weeks later-noticed his morning nappy was dry, he agreed to sit on potty, wee in potty, delighted. Wants to wear pants, sticker chart back out. Lots of prompting but only one accident today. Not a stressful day, very relaxed. He can wee on command if put on potty at the right time and can tell me he needs a wee with a few seconds warning (poo another matter, but will get there). We went for a walk, he did wear a nappy for the walk (his choice) but he got to go out and didn’t feel like the evil pants were trapping him in the house.
He’s gone to bed happy, I’m happy, this may have been a fluke, but I feel he’s just ready now, and that is really a thing. He has some control now.
I’m not disputing the oh crap method-I know it can work amazingly well, and has for lots of my friendsWho have potty trained successfully early. This is also not a brag, it may all go massively wrong tomorrow, but I felt I felt so defeated after the first attempt that I thought I’d share in case someone else is frantically googling for reassurance like I was a month ago!
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Positive story, hope it reassures someone!
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Zooforhouse · 05/03/2021 19:51
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