DS is 3, we have been potty training since the end on April, he is bright and has no other barrier to learning.
I am still having to take him to wee every 30 mins, he will quite often not empty his bladder properly and wet himself 10 mins later. He has occasionally taken hime self for a wee. Basically if I don't take him he will more than likely wee himself and even if I do it's 50/50 if he will wee himself between 30/40 mim trips. I have tried to explain about making sure he empties himself but he just says there is no more wee to come.
Poo's......I think he is withholding.
There are 4/5 skiddy poo encrusted pants a day. I can see him going red and shaking trying to hold it in, I can put him on the toilet and....nothing in fact nothing regularly for 2 days, just poo smeared pants.
We thought we had found a way round as he says he wants the potty for poos. We put the golf on (his request!) poos were produced. Now however he is wise and he just sits there watching TV. If i take him off, poo smeared pants within 15 mins, if I leave him on he will just sit there
(I lasted an hour before I lost patience and took him off and was rewarded with skiddy pants within 20 mins).
He has a soft seat for the toilet, will now sit there and sing to himself quite happily but not actually try.
He does NOT want to talk about it, quite often any mention will start a teary temper event or shouting NO, STOP TALKING!!!. He will say there is not poo in his pants even when I am showing him.
He says he has done one when there is nothing there, him: there is mummy I can see it in the toilet!
We have tried Poo goes to Pooland (him: no he doesn't want to go to Pooland,
Bribery: I don't want ANYTHING
Holding him on the toilet (I am ashamed to admit) Result, I got covered in shit as he tried to climb up me away from the toilet with a crap smeared arse.
I am sick of the house smelling of shit, I am sick of poo covered pants, I am heartily sick of it all. It feels like there has been no improvement but I do not want to go back to nappies. Nursery say he is ready, I really do think he is ready he is just determined and stuck, any ideas?
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mooglycrunch · 29/05/2019 12:21
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